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Dec 8, 2023Liked by Conundrum Cluster

Any serious American government's biggest challenge will be to convince otherwise capable incels of contributing to society in any meaningful way instead of becoming NEETS or blowing their brains out. We need more positive energy, especially for a movement like ours which is supposed to build a better future. Thank you grove, very cool!

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Dec 8, 2023Liked by Conundrum Cluster

Good thoughts, CC. A large part of the right’s appeal should come from the fact that we’re not wild-eyed psychotics or perpetual malcontents. Looking like happy, healthy, mentally stable people will go a long way to bettering our public perception, and thus win people over.

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Dec 8, 2023Liked by Conundrum Cluster

I struggle with this but things that tend to help me;

1. If you’re in an office job all day, just go and take a walk. Whether alone or with a friend, whatever just go walk. Will clear the mind and worst case you’re exercising.

2. Appreciate the nature you can see around you, that bird right there? It’s awesome, hello bird. Oh wow stacks of butterflies right now that’s nice. Etc etc.

3. Your coworkers are likely feeling exactly the same just about whatever is stressful in their lives. Check in on them and if they’re stressed out just try to give them a boost. It helps them, makes you feel good and overtime everyone is happier.

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Dec 9, 2023Liked by Conundrum Cluster

Very wise words that I think are more appropriate now than in many recent decades. Life is so busy and atomized that it's hard to keep your head up.

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Would be nice to have a peaceful life but I am married to a woman 🫣

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My life has dramatically improved when I stopped smoking weed. Probably one of the best choices i’ve made in my young adult life so far!

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I ended up learning how to manually destress using meditation.

It changed my whole perspective on life and opened the door to occult teachings.

I've found that most people don't know how to chill out anymore. This is a lost art form. The how is rarely discussed in our circles. Most people fall back on drugs.

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The #1 thing I need help with is diet and nutrition. There is actually too much info, often conflicting, especially in the “clean eating” space.

Does anyone have a practical, here’s what you buy at the grocery store, here’s what you eat for each meal, here’s what you eat for snacks guide?

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I work for 7 days at a time, trapped in a floating metal box with an entirely random work/rest cycle.

Articles like these always make me smile and say “yeah that sounds cool” as I pour my 3rd pot of coffee for the day.

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+1 for meditation, and I’ll add reading Buddhist and stoic philosophy as well. The world can be better or worse and we should make it better, but it was always a corrupt place. Accepting this with a smile reoriented my life.

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